I have been wondering what its like be single or to be in a relationship. A friend of mine always comes up with a conversation of whats the secret to be happy in a relationship. We keep discussing but there’s no mantra..
Well I will share few things which i feel works. Its valid for all relationships. What you focus on grows. If you notice the negative aspects of a person or relationship, it will grow and if you focus on positive aspects of it, they will grow. Its all up to you, since you have the biggest power to play with your brains.
You can not hope for the moon, when what you can afford is a star. You should have realistic expectations from yourself. You definitely need to know yourself better before getting to know the other person. Love yourself if you want others to love you is an old saying but a true one too.
“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson
Letting go of things work most of the time, but can not work always in that way. Little of the happiness that comes your way can cheer you up and make you go for whole another day. Utilize it. Cherish it. Live it to the fullest. You never know what great is waiting for you at the next turn.
Till then. have a day full of love… xoxo….